Selecting the ideal surrogate is among the most significant decisions in your journey to become a parent. We’ve helped hundreds of families through this process at Ekmi Fertility, and we know that it can be overwhelming at the start. Here’s what you need to consider in selection a surrogate who is the best fit for you.
What Are the Best Surrogate Candidate Qualities?
Not everyone is cut out to be a surrogate. We search for women who fit certain health and lifestyle descriptions:
21 to 40 years of age with at least one successful pregnancy
Healthy BMI (usually between 19 and 32) and no complications during pregnancy
Ever stable with fairly good support emotionally
Never smoker and never users of other substances
Sound mental health assessment and a real desire to help others.
It’s there for a reason: to protect everybody. The health of your baby is directly associated with the well-being of your surrogate and her state of mind.
Medical Screening: Why It Matters
Prior to matching, all potential surrogates at Ekmi Fertility are thoroughly screened. We test for uterine health, and infectious diseases. Prior cesarean deliveries are not an automatic disqualifier, but we look at each one on a case-by-case basis.
What this actually means is that by the time you get to know your surrogate, she has already jumped through many hoops. Rest assured that she’s good and ready medically for the journey ahead.
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The Personal Connection
Here’s what you need to know about surrogacy: It is deeply personal. Some intended parents require consistent updates and communication. Some would like a more discreet set-up. Neither approach is wrong.
In this predefined matching process, we talk about:
Communication preferences and boundaries
Attitudes toward pregnancy plans, medical interventions
Post-birth contact expectations
Compensation and expense arrangements
The best matches occur when everyone is on the same page from the outset.
Independent vs Agency Surrogates
When you decide to use a surrogate, you have two main options:
Independent surrogacy is when you locate and screen candidates yourself. It is less costly on the front end but entails some legwork. With tickets sales and seat-fillers you are on your own with contracts, screening and coordinating.
Agency surrogacy (like with Ekmi Fertility) is when you leave the heavy lifting up to the professionals. We have already screened applicants, organized medical checks and overseen legal arrangements. You also receive peace of mind and support every step of the way.
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Legal Considerations
All surrogacies require a good legal foundation. You’ll need a surrogacy agreement that addresses parental rights, compensation, medical decisions and what happens if complications arise before any medical procedures start.
We have a relationship with prominent reproductive law attorneys who will safeguard everyone’s interest. This is no time to be penny wise and pound foolish.
Trust Your Instincts
Qualifications matter, but so does your gut. If something seems off during the matching process, say something. You’re establishing a relationship of at least a year, perhaps more. That connection has to feel right.
At Ekmi Fertility, you will never go through a decision, question or milestone alone. If you’re armed with the right advice, selecting a surrogate doesn’t have to feel like an impossible task.
FAQs
How long does it take to match a surrogate?
Usually 1-3 months, based on your preferences and needs.
May I meet potential surrogates before I make a choice?
Absolutely. We strongly believe that the two parties should meet to see if there is any kind of relationship before proceeding.
But what if the first match is a dud?
We will keep working with you until the perfect surrogate is found for your family.
To know more Call 9319737070 or email us at info@ekmifertility.com